Join the nation’s experts on cohousing, Katie McCamant & Chuck Durrett for a Cohousing Presentation in Tulsa. RSVP here on Eventbrite.
California is the birthplace of U.S. Cohousing. In 1991, residents moved into Muir Commons in Davis – the first cohousing in North America. There are now over 160 communities across the U.S., with 32 in California. Take this opportunity to visit one near you, or plan a trip out of town! Learn about participating communities here.
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Katie was recently invited by the Institute for Creative Sustainability (a Berlin-based non-profit organization which has been active since 2003 to study and promote cultures of sustainable urban development) to make a statement for their new publication.
Their project, CoHousing Cultures (also the title of another book by the author, Michael LaFond) is publishing CoHousing Inclusive, to be printed in both English and German. They’ve invited 26 international cooperative and community-led housing experts and activists to publish a statement in the book. Katie’s contributory statement:
“In cohousing neighborhoods, we build relationships with our neighbors by working together on practical matters, whether that is a landscape workday or making dinner. As we work together, we build trust. Over time, we find our own edges softening, gaining greater empathy for each other, and this empathy accompanies us in the rest of our lives, opening our hearts to others. Living in community teaches us to listen more carefully to what others have to share. When our communities are truly successful, they give us energy and support to engage actively in the larger civil society to empathetically and respectfully address the challenges of the human condition.”
– Katie McCamant, CoHousing Solutions
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As we near the end of 2016, we who are so lucky to live in community have much to be grateful for; most importantly: good, caring neighbors who are willing to actively engage in the process of creating great neighborhoods to grow up in, and to age in.
How can we best work together to meet our diverse needs? How can I be better at truly hearing you? By sharing my own vulnerabilities, can I help to create a “safe” place for others? When I see you take action, I too am inspired to do my part to create a fairer world.
In our communities, we practice and refine our communication skills, our ability to work collaboratively, and most importantly, to always treat all people with respect. We model a world we dream of for our children, and our children take it forth into the world in so many different ways.
May the holiday season bring you opportunities to appreciate what we have created together, and may the new year bring you and your family and community even more opportunities to practice these skills as we seek to build a more respectful and sustainable world.
With Much Gratitude,
I had drafted a piece for this month’s newsletter titled “abundance,” describing my community’s Harvest Festival and my gratitude for all I have here, in Nevada City Cohousing. But after the election, that no longer felt appropriate. I am, quite frankly, shocked and dismayed that a man that shows so little respect for people has just been elected to the most powerful position in the country. Apparently there are a lot of Americans that see the world very differently than I do.
I have spent my entire adult life trying to create communities that honor that everyone has something to contribute, that reduce our impact on the world’s resources, where we strive to treat each other with respect even when we disagree. This election appears to repudiate all that I have worked for and believe in.
The morning after the election, I read an email posted on Coho-L from Ann Zabaldo of Takoma Village in Washington, DC:
Last night, at 1:45 a.m., my neighbor Carrie and I packed up the projector and the computer (in the common house) and headed home…You might consider the emotions I might be feeling at that juncture…would be sadness, anger, confusion, bemusement, bewilderment, anxiety, depression, etc. Instead, I felt profoundly lonely.
…when I woke up this morning at 5:30 a.m., I was profoundly grateful. I live in cohousing. Now, it’s not just that I have all my neighbors so I won’t be lonely. It’s something bigger than that. A lot bigger.
Cohousing allows me to tackle the issues I want to tackle. I’m not waiting around for “The Government” to deal with issues around aging. Or the challenges single parents face (and two parent households, too!). Or, environmental and energy challenges. Or, latch key kids. Or any of many dozens of other social challenges facing society today. I have a blueprint for how to tackle these issues: Cohousing Communities. I don’t have to wait around for a government program. I can just keep building more communities.
So on this morning after the night before, I am moved to say how grateful I am to Katie McCamant and Chuck Durrett for giving me this blueprint. From the day I read the first paragraph in the first edition of “Cohousing” I have never wavered in my belief and commitment that community has the power to change the world – one cohousing community at a time.That’s a gift, Katie and Chuck. Thank you.
WOW! Thank you Ann! That certainly made my day.
And I agree, we must keep creating healthy communities that teach people to work together, only better and broader. We must make sure our communities are not isolated islands, but rather beacons of hope of how people can work together respectfully, spreading love and hope rather than anger and fear. May our communities sustain us so that we can be even stronger advocates for a more just society for everyone. We must not let this election discourage our efforts. The one thing we can count on now is there will be no financial assistance from the federal government for the foreseeable future to create more affordable housing, protect our environment, or slow climate change.
It is up to us to keep moving those efforts forward as best we can. And I still believe, we can do that best in community.
Always Stronger Together!
– Katie McCamant, CoHousing Solutions
Imagine a community where neighbors know each other, kids play outside together until it’s time for dinner…and when that time comes, dinner is cooked and ready on the table.
“Calling the kids in for dinner can be challenging, because they’re having so much fun they don’t want to come home,” Carlyle Miller said about her two daughters. “So carving out that family time can be more challenging, but we’ve found ways to deal with that.”
Durrett said he and McCamant couldn’t have imagined raising their daughter in another environment.
“Parents can provide only so much guidance and fulfill only so many curiosities. But what Jessie learned from playing with lots of kids just outside the door, what she learned from lengthy conversations with their parents, endless sports with neighbors …. If people only knew what cohousing offered their kids, they would be there,” Durrett said in an email.
As the days grow cooler and we clean out our summer gardens, my community here in the Sierra Foothills soaks in the abundance we reap. We’ve harvested apples and pears from our 10-year-old fruit trees. We’re still getting greens out of the garden, but the tomatoes are done for the year.
This weekend we celebrated with our annual Harvest Festival. We began with a workday, deep cleaning the common house and sprucing up the outdoors. In the afternoon, we had crafts on the terrace where I specialize in wreaths made from the grapevines on my porch, decorated with leaves and herbs from the garden. Making or updating your grapevine wreath has become part of the Harvest Festival Tradition. But alas, no one can concentrate on making wreaths until they’ve attempted the ever-popular donut-on-a-string contest.
After crafts, we gather for the highly competitive Chili Cook-off, along with competitions for cornbread, side dishes and dessert. Much tasting, trying again, and just one more try to make sure… Of course, the vegetarian and less spicy versions have an advantage, as everyone can taste those. Once the winners are announced, we quickly clear the floor for the dance. This is the one time a year we hire a band and a caller to lead us in “old-timey” contra dancing. I love to watch my neighbors of all ages dancing and playing together.
But it shouldn’t be underestimated how satisfying it is to work together with your neighbors to make the place look great. Now that we’ve had this tradition for many years, it’s amazingly easy to put on, everyone chipping in as they’re able. All in all, a fun and satisfying day, celebrating our bountiful harvest in so many ways.
Living in community may not be utopia, but it’s a pretty wonderful place to live…feeling full of abundance.
Join Gorge Cohousing the weekend of October 21st-23rd for a rich cohousing experience.
Free Cohousing Presentation on Friday the 21st, given by Katie McCamant of CoHousing Solutions and Chuck Durrett of McCamant & Durrett Architects. The Getting-It-Built Workshop on Saturday the 22nd & Sunday the 23rd requires pre-registration.
Visit www.gorgecohousing.com for more info on both events.
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