Imagine a community where neighbors know each other, kids play outside together until it’s time for dinner…and when that time comes, dinner is cooked and ready on the table.
“Calling the kids in for dinner can be challenging, because they’re having so much fun they don’t want to come home,” Carlyle Miller said about her two daughters. “So carving out that family time can be more challenging, but we’ve found ways to deal with that.”
Durrett said he and McCamant couldn’t have imagined raising their daughter in another environment.
“Parents can provide only so much guidance and fulfill only so many curiosities. But what Jessie learned from playing with lots of kids just outside the door, what she learned from lengthy conversations with their parents, endless sports with neighbors …. If people only knew what cohousing offered their kids, they would be there,” Durrett said in an email.
Read the full article here.
What benefits does cohousing provide for those entering midlife and beyond?
“While most of us appreciate the independence and freedom of contemporary life, where women can have interesting careers, live independently, and generally have a wealth of options our mothers couldn’t even imagine, in that process we have also lost the community of proximity and the support of nearby extended family.
These days many of us have created our own community of choice—self-selected “tribes” to share holidays and special occasions with, rather than always depending on blood family—but we depend on our cars to connect us. When we suddenly find ourselves unable to drive, whether because of illness or aging, we can quickly go from a very busy life to immense isolation. Cohousing provides a way to create a strong community of proximity, right out your front door, while still allowing us to live active and independent lives in the city or region of our choice.”
Earlier this year, Towergate Insurance (one of the UK’s leading insurance intermediaries) produced a graphic with the laudable title: Is Cohousing the Future of Urban Design? Many of the takeaway stats from the doc are UK-specific, yet at their heart can certainly be applied to U.S. cohousing (and why it’s needed/in demand) too.
The graphic has already been popular among cohousing groups, and widely shared on social media. Take a look!
Take for example, some striking facts related to living alone vs. in community:
- “In terms of reducing overall health, loneliness is comparable to smoking 15 cigarettes a day!”
- “Those who live alone are 2-3x less likely to survive a heart attack.”
- “Living alone increases risk of depression by 80% for working-age people.”
And some good news world-wide on the cohousing front:
- “8% of Danish households are now cohousing.”
- Cohousing draw certainly spans the generations, from “the elderly to single people to families to the environmentally conscious.”
- One which we can vouch for: “The internet and social media have made it easier than ever to connect with like-minded people interested in building cohousing communities.”
Stillwater cohousing community allows older residents control, support in their lives
At the end of last month, a local Oklahoma newspaper published an investigative article about a community near and dear to our hearts, Oakcreek Cohousing in Stillwater, OK.
Oakcreek Senior Cohousing is the first (and as of this article’s writing, the only) cohousing in Oklahoma. The group first launched in 2009, with eight local households inspired in the search for a better way to retire in Stillwater – a college town of about 50,000. As a senior community, the group ranges in age from early 60’s to late 80’s. CoHousing Solutions (then Partners) was hired in 2010 as development consultant for the project. The community completed construction of their homes and common house on their site in 2012, with all homes sold by the end of 2013.
Looking back, Darlington said the experience has exceeded her expectations in terms of building the community and bringing out the best in its residents.
“I didn’t know how much living in my own house isolated me,” she said. “It’s just fun and it’s so easy to have a casual visit — just sit down and chitchat for a minute.”
Darlington said she hopes to live the rest of her days at Oakcreek.
“I hope this is the place I die,” she said. “From the beginning I’ve said that I want you to carry me out of here feet first.
“I’ll hire someone down the road for my personal care when things get bad, but until then I know my neighbors will be here for me.”
You can read the rest of the article online here.